Tuesday, 23 December 2014

a moment before I was born

I recently received a message from an art history graduate of St Andrews informing me of a semi-ethnographic /memoir-ish photo essay project that she has just set up, and asking me if I would like to contribute.

Her name is Livia Marinescu and her project is entitled 'a moment before I was born'.

As she writes on the site description,

In memory of my paternal grandparents, with whom I grew up, I created this online archive called 
a moment before I was born. It is relatively close in time to us, about a generation ago, in the time of our grandparents, that photography was a much rarer and precious act. I would like to invite people to submit portraits of their grandparents when they were young, close to the moment when they met. These photographs attest for a time when young couples would not be able to take hundreds of photos. It was most probably a special, memorable event, to sit in front of the camera and have this experience of togetherness. When you send the photo, please mention your grandparents’ names, the place and year where and when the photo was taken (if you know this – if not, then the places/countries they lived in). You can also write about how they met or anything else that you'd want to share'

I felt inspired by her concept and so I responded by writing the following mini photo essay the very same night.





Thursday, 18 December 2014

The Baby Mother's Tale (a Radio 4 documentary)

A lecturer and teacher of mine recently told me about a radio show that she heard on radio 4 called 'The Baby Mother's Tale'. This fascinating 28 minute documentary explores the stories of (first to third generation) Afro-Caribbean mothers living in Birmingham, UK and their reflections on parenting and conjugal dynamics within their communities. 

Whilst the blurb rightly highlights that 'the voices of these women are almost never heard', the show did remind me of Jamaican Sociologist/Author Olive Senior's path-breaking book, Working Miracles, which documents many similar such stories throughout Caribbean island contexts. In many ways Rebecca Lloyd Evans' radio-short traces the continuity of the familial patterns Senior documents into a metropolitan diasporic frame.   



The Baby Mother Tale interrogates the popular tropes of 'baby mother' (mother of a man's child), 'wifey' (main woman) and 'side chick' ('outside' woman) as various patriarchal categories that the women have to reckon with on an everyday basis as they negotiate relationships with their far from perfect 'child-fathers'. 

The show sketches a candid picture of maternal resilience and roving marginal men. Yet, there's an interesting moment in documentary where a younger man challenges the practices of his elder peers, forcefully provoking them to admit to their paternal shortcomings. Another poignant moment is when one of the young mothers visits her granny to discuss the history of the phenomenon, with her granny revealing the continuity between the 'other woman' of her generation and the 'side chick' of today. 



Fathermen