Monday 27 May 2013

The Plight of the "Paro" : a conversation with Delroy Nesta Williams' poem 'A Stray in Roseau'

Today on Inside Dominica, an opensource news page, I encountered a poem by Delroy 'Nesta' Williams (a poet who has previously contributed to Fathermen) that resonates with some themes I have begun to explore in my research on men in Dominican families.

A while back there was an incident when a man described locally as a 'paro' broke into a car in central Roseau. Some citizens apprehended him and a crowd gathered, geering and taking photos of this apparently entertaining sight until the police came. I watched the scene play out from the balcony of a friends workplace. Discussing the issue of insurance and who would meet the cost of damages to the vehicle, the friend exclaimed: "but he is a paro, he has no family, how can he pay!"




The question of a 'paro' being someone without a family, or whose kin relationships have destabilized and broken down stuck with me. I began to ask, why is it predominantly men who find themselves alone, outside and exposed to the vagaries of life in the streets of Roseau? Indeed, many men are socialized from a young age 'outside' of the home, on the road, and the independence and fortitude they develop are valorised masculine characteristics. But what happens when their independence comes to be undermined by substance dependence, or their networks of familial support fall away or are dismantled? What happens if they lose a limb and can no longer work or fall into a state of 'madness'? What happens when they find themselves going a-stray, deviating from the dominant society's normatively prescribed path?


Nesta's poem is entitled 'A stray in Roseau', it focuses on the social abandonment of the figure of the 'paro' - the drug dependent beggar (or presumed to be drug dependent beggar), who wanders - and often sleeps on - the streets of Roseau, Dominica's capital.


In the title 'A stray' offers a semantic link to the stray dog, connoting the dehumanizing treatment of those referred to as 'paros'. Yet the title also suggests a sympathy on the part of the poet, reminding the reader that 'paros' are humans who have gone astray, fallen, whether by circumstance or otherwise from the mainstream traffic of life.


'Paro' is a derogatory and derisory yet socially accepted term here in Dominica (and elsewhere in the region; I understand that the term is common in Antigua too for example). It derives from the word "paranoid", describing the embodied psychological state induced by the smoking of crack-cocaine.


Unaware of this, yet very much aware of the derogatory nature of the term, when I first arrived in Dominica I had curiously asked an acquaintance if 'paro' was in fact short for "parasite". "No", she replied "but you could call them that", she added with a laugh.

Paro can also be used as verb; I overheard heard someone saying in the street to a friend: "I do[n't] paro, I work hard for my money". Thus, to 'paro' is also to beg, an act which violates the strong ethic of hard work held by many across the society. Begging is seen to undermine an individual's dignity, it places beggar as subservient to potential giver/denier. Evincing the latter, an individual would much rather lay claim to something via a demand - e.g. "buy me a drink na!", thus offering a semblance of power - than ask for it and hence admit her or his relative economic powerlessness. But a 'paro' is seen not to care, willing to do anything to procure the funds needed to meet the demands of their dependency.

And therefore as Nesta reminds us, 'paros' become cheap labor (cleaning our buses and doing jobs we don't want to do), or the butt of our jokes (doing press-ups on the road for a few coins or unintentionally posing in handcuffs as we photograph them in the back of a police pickup). Nesta reminds us however, that our exploitation of such desperation comes at a spiritual cost. 'A cost deferred is still a price to pay, someday'. Maybe the poet is suggesting that the inconsistency of such actions with the christian values of charity, empathy and care for the poor and meek - so proudly espoused by the churchgoers of this predominantly Catholic country - will be payed for at the moment of judgement. But he also adds that before that time, in this life another moment of judgement may befall the judgmental. Those who laugh at and judge the man in street may also one day be knocked down onto the hard concrete on which he sits and sleeps.


Nestor closes on a somber tone, highlighting the society's collective failure to regard the plight of the 'Paro'.


However, if they have failed to acknowledge their plight,  ministers of government have most certainly not missed their presence. Officials Ian Douglas, Minister of Tourism and Anthony Scotland, Chief Environmental Officer, have recently made public statements about 'the problem of vagrancy' in the city and its tainting of the national 'tourism product'. Douglas is quoted in a recent Dominica News Online article as saying:

“Vagrancy is something that affects the visitor experience … guests must feel comfortable in the destination...We don’t want those guys coming on to the Bay Front and touching the guests and harassing the guests…put them in a place where we can treat them humanely with a warm bath and a meal and stuff and get them away from the general area while the guests and the ship are in port.”
 Scotland then echoes the sentiment of his colleague, adding: 
“Some people might be talking that they have their human rights and all sort of things but you cannot afford to have a town of loose vagrants going up and down, creating problems for you and the environment... It is a problem we must address in Dominica quickly.”
Therefore, rather than talking of social abandonment and offering a reinvestment of tourism revenues into sustainable social programs that provide rehabilitational services, shelter or a support network for some of the countries's most vulnerable citizens, Douglas and Scotland prefer to temporarily 'put them' out of sight, Chloroxing the public space of the polluting presence of the 'paro'. 


Thank you Nesta for this timely poem:




A stray in Roseau



By Delroy Nesta Williams

How do you walk through Roseau
And not smell the stench
Three, four “paros” taking a hit
Behind the broken down wooden fence
Crouched over without a concern
Withering away into obscurity
While young children look down from their porches
Point fingers, laugh and make jokes
But this “paro” man wanted a future
Just like the one you hope for
River Street, Cork Street and even Virgin Lane
The streets of the city are all stained
Roseau has gone to the dogs
And who is to be blamed?
With a hand out they ask for a dollar
Harassing you on every street corner
But the pungent smell is a turn off
So you hold your nose and show no love
What you do to the least of your brothers?
No one seems to bother
And we carry on our merry way
Unless we need a favour
Something we don’t want to pay for the full price for
So instead we hire the “paro” labour
But a cost deferred is still a price to pay, someday
So while you show no love
You walk the city streets going to the Cathedral
So routine that you see almost nothing
In your Sunday best and two-edged sword
It’s funny how you carry the good Book but ignore the words
Along your journey to cast empty prayers to the Lord above
The rhetoric of last Sunday becomes the gospel retold today
Ignoring that the “paro” problem is a situation
That you’ve created when you turn a blind eye
And instead cast judgment
But the “paro” was once just a passer by
Yes, that could just be you
In a few years after being knocked down
By a society that creates problems
And offers little or no solutions
And so Roseau rest afloat
On a cloud of issues
But the least of which we see
Is the “paro” roaming the city streets!

3 comments:

Che said...

Interestingly, most of these so called 'paros' are highly educated men and women however seemingly plagued by their plight of judgment. Raised on the same moral standings of the Dominican community, it could happen to the best or the worst of us. It all falls back on decisions decisions decisions. The company they kept, the advise they chose to adhere, the doors they chose to open, etc. There are some mistakes that would teach you a lesson and there are some that would change your life.

In attempting to rectify this issue, I would never give them that $1 they so semingly depend on! Rather I'd guide them how to fish again than give them a fish to bring them back to square one.

With that being said, this needs to be published in the papers and directed to the major decision makers in the dominican community.

Great write and read young man! Hope it inspires action. Thank you

Adominic said...

Thank you for your comment Che.

I find it interesting that you emphasize choice rather than circumstance as the cause of the situation many such men (and some women) find themselves in. Bad decisions as key junctures in life, wrong decisions determinng the scripts of our futures.

Adominic said...

Since men, and to lesser extent women (given kin based support networks), are in a sense alone in this world. They must grow up strong. Learn the techniques of survival so as to learn to fill their stomach. There is little sympathy for those who fall, those too weak to make the key decisions that will make right s wrong situation.

Fathermen